It is said that marriage is the hell of love, you will come from full rights and no obligation to no right and full obligations. Im still on the way to experience this whole journey called marriage. So far, so good.
We have had ups and downs, tears and laughters, hold-on-tight and push-away...but at the end of the day, we are still here, together, looking into each other's eyes and dreaming of a happy ending.
Yes, you will uncover tons of your partner's secrets, you will finally see him/her in a totally different light. All the years of dating at the cinema or cafeteria will not prepare you for some shocking moments of truth. He could turn out to be a filthy farmer instead of a knight in shining amour. But look at you, in his eyes, you may also no longer a sleeping beauty or snow white. So, what is it all about? Why should we tie ourselves up in a cage so-called marriage?
Marriage is all about sympathy and acceptance, about patience and sharing. Love is still here, but no longer enough. You will need much more than that to keep your marriage alive and more importantly, growing.
I suddenly feel like a small kid, learning from ABC all over again, of how to become someone's wife and soon enough, someone's mother. We are both trying to fit ourselves into this new role. But how come i do not feel any pressure or burden? It is just so fresh and exciting, but at the same time, so dilemmatic: this is the book i wanna read between the lines in every page, spend time enjoying every word and phrase but somehow I can not wait for the ending to come as soon as possible.
Lets see what the future holds. So tempting, my lovely panda ;))
